Dodging things that u know have to be done(What God’s been telling you to do),finding ways around it,HOLDING YOURSELF BACK?!…then u go through the pain,frustration..Sadness & ur like” God why am I going through this?!, what did I do to feel like this” When all along He’s been trying to tell u the ways ur going about things were Wrong & u in fact already know why! He allowed u to feel all of that to prick your heart!…to surrender,repent & be obedient…to do things the RIGHT way! Move forward!